TOP 10 ADVENTURES OF 2017 AND MY BE ATTITUDES

My travels, adventures and challenges as a widow this year continue to keep me active and bring happiness.  Last year I posted my top 10 travels and lessons I learned. I continue to pursue new lessons by engaging in travel adventures and putting myself out there.  It’s been a good year:

10.  On a visit – Florida.  BE WARM

I learned that it is much warmer in February in Florida than in New York.  It is definitely a consideration for future living possibilities. There are so many fun places to explore all year long in Florida.  Plus I have a mom and sister already living there.  I like Florida.

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9. On a mission – Italy.  BE FAITHFUL

Mike was Catholic and I felt his ashes needed to be blessed in a Catholic Church.  I could have asked a local parish, but I felt that going to see the pope during one of his blessings would be worth the pilgrimage.  I didn’t spend long in Rome.  It really is a beautiful city and I am glad I went.  I learned that my faith is deep and that I could visit Italy many times and never grow tired of that place.

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The Pieta St. Paul's Cathedral in Rome
The Pieta St. Paul’s Cathedral in Rome

8. On a retreat – Costa Rica. BE BALANCED

Mike had wanted to retire to Costa Rica so I went to honor him.  The yoga and writing retreat at a spa on the Pacific Coast was just what I needed.  I got in touch with my soul through writing on this trip.  I learned that yoga can be very strenuous and that I tend to be stiff and have poor balance. With focus, concentration and practice I can improve. I even applied my practice and learned how to surf.

BLOG – Costa Rica: Runaway to yoga, writing and surfing

Surfing in Costa Rica
First time surfing

7. On a reunion – Colorado.  BE ACTIVE

I learned that I loved Colorado when I lived there in the 80’s and that the state is even better than I remembered.  The people there are so relaxed.  That could be because of the Marijuana shops but still… Hiking and even driving around the state is amazing.  The majestic mountains, blue sky and purple columbine flowers delight the senses. People stay in good physical and mental health by enjoying the outdoors with hiking and biking. The adrenaline rush from physical exertion is maybe the best Rocky Mountain high.

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Hiking in Telluride Colorado
Hiking in Telluride

6. On a tradition – Montauk.  BE CALM

I learned that I never will get bored of Montauk. New adventures await. I went fishing and biking as well as eating and swimming. But the best thing to do in Montauk is watch the waves, sit and be still. The ocean is hypnotic and a dose of the sea is the best anti-anxiety therapy I know.

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5. On a celebration – Woodstock.  BE SAFE

Woodstock is such a quaint little town upstate with cute shops and decent restaurants. I celebrated my birthday at a spa nearby. Hiking the half mile to nearby Katterskill falls is dangerous and strenuous as there is not a well defined path. I learned you should be aware of the danger signs and STAY ON THE TRAIL to be safe. In life that is true too.

Hike to Kaaterskill Falls
Hiking to Kaaterskill Falls

6.  On a discovery -Ithaca. BE CURIOUS

Visiting family in a familiar setting is comforting, but it is possible to make the most common visits interesting by being curious. Ask questions.  Learn more about people you know. Everyone has a story. I have taken to searching Pinterest and Google for things to do in places I visit.  I learned that thinking about my visits as possible Blog entries encourages me to go out and discover new adventures and then do them!

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Hike at Upper Treman State park
Upper Treman State park

7. On a day trip – Philadelphia.  BE STRONG

Fourth of July weekend was a great time to visit this historic city.  I learned that the Mason-Dixon line goes through Philadelphia and that Philly steak sandwiches are better with melted butter on the roll at Ginos. Our country was founded by people who felt there was an injustice. They fought. It wasn’t easy. But they did what they felt was important for justice to prevail. I am engaged in my own battles. I have learned to be strong by standing up to the powers that be. It’s not easy and I don’t like it. When you feel strongly about something you can sit back and lament or push forward. Regarding the homicide of my husband, I am still pressing forward for answers and justice.

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Liberty Bell in Philadelphia
Liberty Bell

8.  On the boat – Long Island. BE HAPPY

I learned that I love the water and should spend as much time as I can enjoying it. In it. On it. Near it. Life is short. Be happy.

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9. On the road – Tennessee. BE GRATEFUL

Nashville is lively and reminds me of Key West and New Orleans. The barrage of country melodies streaming from the tightly packed bars makes you want to stomp and skip your way down the strip. Along the sides of the street, in the cold, are the homeless men and women. Some singing a tune or playing instruments. Maybe one day they’ll get a gig in a local bar. How can it be so hard for some and easy for others? I learned to remember to count my blessings and be grateful for all I have and have had in my life.

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10. On a date – New York City.  BE BRAVE.

I learned that you have to be willing to put yourself out there and meet someone if you would like to date.  It doesn’t happen by sitting home and scrolling through Facebook. It didn’t happen in my bereavement group, it was all women. I went on a date.  It was definitely the biggest and scariest challenge in my life as a widow. Luckily I met someone really nice on my first and only date and I now have a special someone in my life.  I enjoy having someone to eat meals with, plan weekend or vacation adventures and just text funny things that happen during the day. I was happy with my late husband. We enjoyed each other’s company and being together made our lives better. I liked having someone special in my life so why shouldn’t I want to spend time with someone who makes me smile again.

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Thanks for reading my blog and for all your comments and words of encouragement.  Wishing everyone a Happy New Year filled with love, adventures and growth.

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13 comments on “TOP 10 ADVENTURES OF 2017 AND MY BE ATTITUDES”
  1. cedar51 says:

    it’s always interesting when you look back over the last year…a few weeks ago when I ticking the last art requirement boxes for year 1, I got out many of the art pieces I had made this year, cleared a small space on top of the ‘paper cupboard’ and arranged them, I’ve been moving more things in/out and I was pleased with what I had achieved…none of the photography is on display as it needs printing but that’s going to be interesting later…

    then when I wasn’t expecting something else to happen my long time friend, who is always on my “case” – I’ve a number of disability & health issues, must have been reflecting and she said a number of encouraging things including apologizing for always being on my case. (I know why she’s reflecting, she is kind of grounded with some medical issues…usually she is never at home, out and about, busy-as)

    I’m looking forward to more of your adventures – as I get the impression that whilst this year was a bit of practicing, your post suggests you are going to be doing a lot more 🙂

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Thank you so much for your comment and for following my blog. I love the idea that I will be doing a lot more. Life is good!

  2. Addie says:

    Love being in your loop, seeing your growth, and loving you through every step and knowing you will help so many hitting that horrible brick wall and somehow, someway finding a new way to keep on keeping on.

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Thanks for reading and all your fun comments and support.

  3. Emma says:

    What a great year you’ve had! Fantastic photos – I love seeing different sides of the world.

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Thanks for visiting my blog.

  4. Where's My Other Sock? says:

    I love this and the steps you lay out that will help taking the first step, often the hardest one, much easier.

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Life is one big learning process. Having fun adventures and good friends help!

  5. Zesty Olive says:

    Just found your blog, and so happy I did! I look forward to reading more about your runaway adventures and take-aways from them!

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Thank you so much for reading. I hope you enjoy my posts!

  6. tiazim says:

    It looks like 2017 was a very busy year for you. Keep on going! do you already have some plans for 2018?

    1. runawaywidow says:

      Hi. Thanks for reading. So far just a trip to Florida in February. It’s always nice to get away from cold NY in the winter.

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